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How do we know that our social worker, psychologist, counsellor, religious leader or psychiatrist is trustworthy, reasonable, skilled, knowledgable, kind, compassionate and has our best interest at heart? Truth is, we don't!
How do we know that our social worker, psychologist, counsellor, religious leader or psychiatrist is trustworthy, reasonable, skilled, knowledgable, kind, compassionate and has our best interest at heart? Truth is, we don't!
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I once sat in front of a registered psychologist in a suit with a necktie, shiny shoes and a clipboard, who was determined to establish that my medical history had triggered a disproportionate response of empathy and compassion. I, on the other hand, was seething! His professional 9 - 5 manner had overwritten the most humane response to the crisis of 17 year-old kid who reacted badly to the anti-depressants they were prescribed by a registered psychiatrist who failed to establish a safety plan for the potential fallout.
That being said, I also sat in front of registered angels in suits with equally shiny shoes who saved my life. And I sat in front of registered helpless, and hopelessly tired people who knew as much about anxiety as I did- that it was tricky.
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So how do we know who Scott Harvey is? He is a registered social worker, but he does not sit in an office, there are no high gloss posters, there is no receptionist, he does not wear a suit and there is no clipboard. He is just here on the streets of Aotearoa New Zealand next to a car and a few signs that read ‘Are you okay bro?’ and ‘Stop 4 a yarn!’
I saw Scotty and his colourful car parked in Tauriko and Te Puna before I finally got an opportunity to stop and talk with him in Greerton. Just before I shook Scotty’s hand, he had been talking to a teenager on his way to nowhere from school. The boy did neither know where to turn, who to talk to nor how to go on. Within an hour and after plenty of tears, he had not only unburdened himself for the moment, but he also had an emergency plan and the assurance that he was just human and that it was okay to feel this way.
Many of us will come to feel like this on one day or another. Some of us drive beat up vans and others BMWs, and we are all okay to feel this way. So thank you Scotty for reminding us that there is a way out- it often starts with a yarn with a total stranger.
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